Eventually, things begin to come clearer for us The distorted reality
forged by our partners is restored to reason; the web of obligation
and guilt is torn open; the intense feelings of love are overcome or
at least put into perspective; we come to know more of what we are
about as a person.
But the hard work is hardly done. At this point we face the challenge of
moving on. Then we face the struggle to find permission to make the changes we
desire, and the wall of fear that looms in front of us.
Ultimately, insight and determination can overcome these, too.