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Finding Yourself
(Chapter 4)
An insidious and really nasty thing happens to nons who stay in
relationships after they turn ugly: we lose ourselves. We devote so much of our
energy, and direct so many of our choices, to trying to make the situation
better that we lose track of what we are about as people. It happens slowly and
we don't realize what's happening. But one day most of us realize that we almost
completely lost what we are as a person. This chapter contains some of my
insights from the process of rediscovering me.
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